We are the attackers taking the guts out of a woman. We are the Rapists born to rape.
“I would have burned my daughter alive if she was having premarital sex and moving around at night with her boyfriend”, said lawyer AP Singh referring to Nirbhaya.
Slow Clap for this lawyer who was given 3 weeks to escape by the government of India. While most of us would be reading this statement in disgust, we would like to disappoint you by informing that most of you out there are rapists. The conventions, beliefs and traditions have emerged victorious in being hegemonic for our psyche and have turned most of us into big hypocrites! We are the ruthless beings allowed, trained and meant to dehumanize all the marginalized, then push them to the borders, smash their heads against the walls and make them cry for giving them something which is even worse than death. We are the attackers taking the guts out of a woman. We are the rapists who are born to rape.
A Bus. Some horny men in India. A man and a lady ‘In solitude’. The assault happens and the Rape is executed!
Nirbhaya case is something we all have known about. We all realize that the attackers were grim and broke the general public and the lady living in that society into pieces. The entire society siezed this one incidence and recalled Nirbhaya for her frightful reality of being a woman who was dehumanized.
Things being what they are, what’s the brain science behind a man being an attacker? While the majority of us claim that attackers are cruel people and have a sick personality, what we have to reexamine is who is an attacker and what makes an attacker. It’s not only a man assaulting somebody; its the entire society that is in charge of their sexual heresy.
You, out there, yes – YOU. MAN, WOMEN, YOUNG, OLD, MIDDLE CLASS, UPPER CLASS, POOR, INTELLECTUAL, LOAFER, MANAGER, BOSS, EMPLOYEE, MOTHER, FATHER – YOU ARE A HYPOCRITE AND A RAPIST. The main contrast between the one in prison and you is, that your reasoning prompted his incredible idea of stripping a lady, assaulting her, inserting his penis and afterward poles and sticks into her vagina until she is tore separated – her areolas turned sore, her vagina broken into fragments and her rear end part into pieces. She is currently a creature to be eaten like whatever other leg piece. Barbarians are wonderful, Cannibals are so in. So, let us receive this and make it the new ‘cool’.
The Rapist is indeed the casualty of the whole society’s satisfying craving to sexually and mentally assault a woman who is the “other”. This antagonistic brain science has been engraved in our exceptional soul and afterwards we expect the individual standing directly before a prey, not to feed upon him/her. It’s not about the psychology of assault or the psychology of an attacker or a rapist– IT IS ABOUT THE PSYCHOLOGY OF THE SOCIETY. Everytime a lady gets assaulted in India, all we do is “Dissent or Protest” and put the photo of something as our whatsapp dp, yet never ‘ACT’.
Here are some mental issues that are in charge of a man conferring a sexual assault:
1. Culture and Conditioning: A kid, since adolescence is given a ninja to play with while a girl is given a Barbie doll. We have installed in the very psyche of a boy not to cry and ‘Take care of the business’. A young lady then again is advised to attend and care for her Barbie, then her spouse, then her child and ofcourse her in laws. The conventions of the society characterizes a lady to be meek and a man to be the controller. The dialect is phallocentric and consequently we say – “MANkind” and “HIStory” – Why not a word that considers both the genders as equivalents?
Every society has its own generalizations. The rich Indians long to westernize themselves – wear shirt and trousers, partying hard, drink, smoke, , believe in live-in and some even yearn to flaunt their parts whenever necessary, thus going nude.But What happens when they have this desire to assault? The Indians then overlook the entire idea of the western standards and begin regarding a woman as an object of longing, get exposed, strip them off and assault her and slaughter her spirit. Tune in, You post-colonial cross breeds, quit being fraudulent and hypocrites! Utilize your brain, don’t get in the trap of traditions.
2. Horrifying Pornography: Pornography is not an ethical issue but rather a political one. It is critical to note that female porn offers more than men in light of the fact that its a patriarchal business. The women are dehumanized and indicated in porn motion pictures in a manner which portrays that they need to get assaulted and raped. The female is indicated to rely on upon the men and the man has got the balls and the freedom to push and insert his full hand, phallus and what not inside the vagina and the anus. Explicit entertainment further makes a division of good/terrible women both inside the room on the bed and outside. Ann Garry clarifies this in the article named –’Sex lies and Pornography’.
3. Unemployment in India : There are numerous individuals out there in our nation who are given cash through different plans and projects. The poor enjoys sex, build their family, and send all the kids to the school – That’s not for training or education but rather just to get cash. The fathers gets the money, eats, drinks, smokes and after that get to be the rapist. How Cool! Congrats Indian government – You lost the game. At the point when individuals won’t be occupied and employed and will get monetary benefits for nothing, what else you anticipate? The individuals and the administration ought to cooperate for channelizing the vitality of a person into something productive. They ought to concentrate on business and not get to be givers just to win a bleeding race- the elections. Power surely corrupts them.
4. Public Display of Affection(PDA)
People need to take part in PDA. Go to Lodhi Garden and Safdarjung Tomb in Delhi, or whatever other DTC transport or ANYWHERE. You will see girls and boys engaged in PDA. You say that the rapists can’t control their desire because of their diseased mind. Can the gentlemen and even young ladies control their desire and get a room? If you don’t mind Why do you wish to demonstrate your fondness like a pooch on boulevards and turn into the focal point of fascination and the reason for erections? Why?
5. Men and Women – Please figure out how to control your brain and get over yourself.
At the point when a man rapes, his psychology is an aftereffect of the general public and society which holds the above traditions and conventions of being prudish in case of women and ‘being a man’ in case of a man and being a beggar or a useless person in case of LGBT. We get it that the entire society is an attacker, however people ought to figure out how to be a superior human by taking a gander at a young lady’s eyes and not bosoms. Kindly don’t dehumanize the young ladies. They are full humans and not just boobs, ass and vagina.
Now, Our dear Young ladies. We get it that every one of you are not the same. You have to comprehend that same is the situation for gentlemen. A man and a lady get sloshed. The young lady displays her legs and moves to draw in the fellow. The guy begins getting closer to her and they end up making out. The young lady all of a sudden understands that she wouldn’t like to have intercourse. She cannot. The gentleman ends up raping and assaulting her. We know the fellow is without a doubt at fault, be that as it may, shouldn’t something be said about the young lady? We are not saying that young ladies should not wear what they want to, we are stating that a woman ought not give a lead to a gentleman who she supposes would go wild or to a stranger she has recently met.
It’s dismal and a plight that young ladies need to think so much(owing to the predominance of the phallus) and this must change. But at the same time, its unfair that we accuse the male commanded world for everything. Its the general public and we ourselves who are to be faulted. Its our mind and our bloody conventions that make us shallow and small.
Men, Women and society – For the love of humankind, grow up and utilize a few brains. They have been given to you for usage. Regard, Think and figure out how to control your mind. Get over your powerless mindset that is a marionette in the hands of the rapist psychology.
God favor every one of you with a third eye. Not to assault or rape further, but rather to utilize your mind. Government of India- Please do likewise. There ought to be a law to spread awareness and to mutilate the attacker – in that spot and afterward so they get the chance to feel the rods in their essentials and vital parts. Castration is the only means and punishment for them.
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